A Forgotten Anniversary
I’ve intentionally put off dating this year until after Valentine’s Day… seems like too much complication for an awkward romantic holiday with a new person. I’ll feed myself my own steak dinner – ha! Anyway, I was thinking about that tonight and my mind thought, “wait… didn’t the divorce finalize just before our wedding anniversary?” (also coming up) Anyway, I looked it up, and I’ll be damned if I hadn’t missed my divorce anniversary!
I almost can’t believe it’s been a year, but I remember the relief I felt when it was finalized. A freedom, a peace, a new beginning, and a release from so many lies & so much hurt. This past year has been such an absolute blessing to me. It has brought many amazing people into my life – I’ve made friends near and far. There have been people who were meant to be temporary and some who I hope never leave, and I’ve learned something from each and every one of them. I’ve had adventures in 6 states and had countless nights filled with laughter. I’ve learned more about myself and discovered strengths I didn’t realize I had.
I’m in a few online groups where many women sometimes post about bad situations and relationships they’re in. I want to give you hope – there is life on the other side of divorce. I’d absolutely encourage you to try and reconcile and work through issues TOGETHER if you and your spouse are BOTH willing to put in the effort and energy to be better individuals for each other. But if you’ve been physically or emotionally abandoned or abused, do not stay out of fear for what you will be losing – leave because of what you can gain.
Sometimes we are put in a position to choose a path without knowing what’s on the other side. Some paths are short and obvious, some we can see a relatively quick exit, but others are more obscured and treacherous. One thing that keeps me moving forward is faith that good things will come and a hope for something better, that’s my prayer for you as well!
XOXO ~ Langley
It means a lot that you read, even if you don’t reach out. : )
